July 8, 2015
Shortly after the murders of the Mother Emanuel 9 in
Charleston, our nation began a “conversation” about forgiveness. Nadine
Collier, Ethel Lance’s daughter, forgave her mother’s murderer in what seemed
like mere hours of the shooting. This stunning act of forgiveness provided us
with a point of reflection. Then, at the terrorist’s bond hearing, Myra
Thompson’s grandson, Anthony Thompson, conveyed his forgiveness. Christopher
Singleton and his sister Camryn similarly forgave this same man who murdered
their mother, the Reverend Sharonda Coleman-Singleton. Truly, Ms. Collier, Mr.
Thompson, and the Singletons displayed tremendous dignity and resolve.
I take absolutely no exception with the actions of Ms.
Collier, Mr. Thompson, and the young Singletons. They lost members of their
families. Forgiveness rightly became a very personal Ebenezer—a stone of
help—for the family members and close friends of the Honorable Reverend
Clementa Pinckney, Reverend Depayne Middleton-Doctor, Reverend Singleton,
Reverend Daniel Simmons, Sr., Tywanza Sanders, Ms. Thompson, Susie Jackson,
Cynthia Hurd, and Ms. Lance. The bereaved more than any of us need a reminder
of God’s very present aid in times of pain and peril.
Then opinions expressed by Dr. Stacey Patton in The
Washington Post further drove the debate. Dr. Patton advocates that African
Americans no longer accommodate white guilt, gaze, imposition, and fetish by
readily granting forgiveness especially publically in the midst of our anguish.
This seems reasonable to me.
As tends to be the case when conventional “wisdom”—such as
the virtue of forgiveness—is presumed under attack, pundits strike reflexively.
Many who addressed Dr. Patton through the fiber optics of the Internet or
television with counter-commentary seemed to not have gleaned her argument or
refused it outright. Old habits die hard, even when those habits are
detrimental.
Black—and usually Christian—forgiveness given freely,
publicly, and without demand for recourse and redress of injury is exceedingly
problematic in our communal quest for justice—personal and social. African
Americans historically have been conditioned to humble ourselves at the altar
of white supremacy. This must stop.
In order to bend the arc of the moral universe toward our
equitable and humane treatment, African Americans must stop kowtowing and being
complicit in our own dehumanization and subjugation. As victims of terror, we
have absolutely nothing to be contrite about.
The Church, of which I am currently a part, must stop
teaching a faux-narrative that makes weaklings out of believers. Narratives
that focus on forgiveness, but not on self-actualization, the development and
use of power, and offender accountability fail to produce the type of happy,
healthy, whole practitioners that the Gospel intends. Our focus ought to be in
developing and cultivating good old fashion power. Yes, power is a paradigm
promoted by Jesus Christ, that Northeast African Palestinian Jew.
St. Mark 5:21-43 provides insight into the principles that I
espouse. In this pericope, the woman with the twelve-year issue of blood
(hemorrhaging) and Jarius, the synagogue leader, use self-determination to gain
healing and wholeness—the woman for herself and Jarius for his twelve-year-old
daughter. Jesus Christ, the Messiah, felt his “power” go out of him when the
woman pressing through the crowd touched the hem of his garment. She then stood
up whole. Her issue resolved. With a mere vocal command, “Talitha cum,”
(Aramaic for “Little girl, get up!”) Jesus healed the child.
In both cases, embodied illnesses were overcome through
accessing and using power. Too often African Americans give away power by
publicly forgiving actors in racist, imperial systems perpetuated by the myth
of white supremacy. Internalized oppression is a disease. Post-Traumatic Slave
Syndrome, as conceptualized by Dr. Joy DeGruy, is an illness.
We must acknowledge that when media engages forgiveness it
becomes spectacle. Spectacle is cheap, tawdry, and a tool of the oppressor.
Willingly participating in the theatrics of forgiveness going forward ought to
be viewed as fostering socio-political sickness and a capitulation to a
imperfect, self-defeating theology.
It seems like every fifty years or so, this nation cycles
back to address the recurring implications of man-made racial inequality. In
the Judeo-Christian tradition fifty years is supposed to represent the year of
Jubilee—a year of celebration and a year in which debts are dismissed and
jubilance had. We, African Americans, continue to miss the mark. Why? In part,
because we fail to give life to the power we contain. Sadly, the very religion
so many of us purport to love is a tremendous source of our impotence.
If a critical mass of African Americans operate in our
power, like flag-removing Bree Newsome, the oppressive culture of the United
States has no other option but to change for the better. We have the power to
bend the arc of the moral universe toward justice. We have the power to bend
the arc of the moral universe toward equality.
Without question, forgiveness gained privately, for one’s
own sake and the sake of our families and our community is a positive
development in the healing process. This is a strength, which cannot be abused.
We, the African American people and our allies, gained nine
martyrs for the all-important cause of overcoming the pox of racism. Without
question, millions mourn the untimely and unnatural deaths of the Mother
Emanuel 9. Deaths that like so many others were brought on by the U.S. legacy
of unwarranted hatred; unbridled ignorance and violence enacted by
intellectually and spiritually impaired whites directed toward African
Americans indiscriminately. We too, need to rely on those things that bring
comfort, hope, and a sense of stability and safety.
For many of us forgiveness is not that thing. Our martyrs
slain have given us perspective. For those of us who are clear on the struggle
and what is required to end white supremacy and its impositions, we know that
forgiveness was, and remains, a necessary luxury for those in close proximity
to loss of family, fellow church members and other loved ones.
For everyone else, media-covered forgiveness becomes a
crutch that hinders the work before us. For those of us who are not at the
epicenter of tragedy, we have one responsibility. It is accountability. We have
an obligation to the deceased, the bereaved, our ancestors, ourselves, and
future generations to hold the supporters of white supremacy and white
privilege accountable.
For us, forgiveness takes on cosmic or metaphysical
proportions. It is not interpersonal or immediate. Forgiveness for the masses
must be withheld until the hydra headed monster of white supremacy and
privilege breathes its last breath. Until white Americans confess their sins
and those of their foreparents, remove every Southern Cross from public spaces,
confront their intra-ethnic group members who are violators, ratify laws that
rectify systemic disadvantages and oppressions based upon color and class,
overturn injustices, apologize, and pay reparations, forgiveness ought not be
articulated. Tall order, I know, but as Dr. Cornel West said on CNN shortly
after the massacre, “Forgiveness is a process, not an utterance.” So, too is
reconciliation.
Even for those who have personal relationships to victims of
hate crimes and race-based terrorism, to articulate forgiveness too soon and
publically is to increase the risk of being misused and potentially made
complicit in one’s own oppression. It would benefit our pursuit of justice,
equity, and right treatment to withhold public forgiveness and absolution.
While for our own sakes we ought not harbor bitterness, we must be resolute in
our determination to overcome. Public forgiveness for us is not a starting
point, but a culminating event. Our grand bestowal of forgiveness must wait for
the type of pervasive, earthly, and supernatural resolution—the end of white
supremacy—so poignantly imagined by the Negro Poet Laureate Paul Laurence
Dunbar in his 1913 poem Dawn:
“An angel, robed in spotless whiteBent down to kiss the
sleeping Night. Night woke to blush; the spite was gone. Men saw the blush and
called it Dawn.”
Leah C.K. Lewis, J.D., M.Div., D.Min., (ABD), is an ordained
Baptist minister with standing in the United Church of Christ. She currently
serves a Lutheran congregation. An author and literary activist, she has
completed her dissertation on sex and sexuality in the African American Baptist
Church and a manuscript on legal, religious, and political rhetoric pertinent
to “race.” Follow her @HumanStriving, SoundCloud.com/Reverend-Leah-CK-Lewis,
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